(Posted on Instagram 6/11/16)
I attended a bridal shower today. There were actually 3 young ladies in the same room getting married in the very near future. I can’t help but think of the past when I go to events like this. (Weddings, funerals, and I guess showers have a way of doing that). I screwed up a lot when I was that age…early 20s. I let go of someone I shouldn’t have and clung to someone I should’ve let go of. I had it all and was too dumb to know it. I wanted more. He’s happily married now and successful in life. I’ve been divorced twice and alone again at 44. We ARE the choices we make. I followed my heart too much and forgot to take my brain with me. The woes of being a free spirit. I just want to stress the importance of decision making. DON’T follow every whim that feels good…especially if you have a gut feeling something is off. If you don’t know what to do…seek God and He will show you the way. Don’t force things that aren’t meant for you. Love shouldn’t be hard. That’s where I’m at now, finally.
Blessings,
Stacey ~ iamalive